adding on a new baby

My parents felt that the way I care for my children is too carefree, too easygoing so I should have another baby when I’m still young. While it sounds funny, I actually got the same comments from some friends and relatives too. I would think that’s because I have a helpful and supportive hubby. He does all the chores so my job is to only nurse XY. My siblings used to tease me that what I have been doing is to breastfeed the kids, which is super easy. In my defence, breastfeeding is very annoying too. It’s so much different that I was fussy when I have my firstborn, now that I’m a mother of 3, the kiddos can do everything they want as long as it’s not life-threatening. Ya, XY has chicken and prawns before she is two, and ice cream too! And I wouldn’t go for pricey diapers because I just came to sense that there are cheaper ones in the market with the same quality. Then some mummies were amazed that my kids always appear barefoot in most of our pictures. I did not purposely ask them to walk and play barefooted but it just so happened that I either did not bring XY’s shoes or my boys love to take off theirs. Apparently it’s good for their growth to feel the Mother Earth, to which I did not know much. Then I have some seniors who told me that nobody ever regrets of having more kids, we only see those who regret for not having enough, which is so true. Then, both my sons told me that they wanted another baby sister, not a brother. Hahaha... I guess they do not know that baby sister can be very disastrous too.