The dilemma of working parents

Hubby and I start to feel the childcare dilemma of working parents. No wonder government has to step in and subsidize to ensure more childcare centres are set up at workplaces. Hence, saves the hassle for working parents. In the near future, we will send xuan and cheng to daycare centre or babysitter. Hubby and I are looking at the options we have. It is not easy. We are not so much worried about xuan since he will be going to school soon. But we are completely worried about cheng, though he is already 9mo. I bet many will tell me not to worry as kids are smart and know their ways to survive. But being the first time parents sending kids to the caregiver, I can't help but to feel anxious. Like mil always says, cheng is very unique in his own way. There is even a tagline for feeding him. 两格奶分三次喝, 第一次喂慢慢喝, 第二次喂他就哭, 再喂就吐给你看。His caregiver must be very patient with him. If I myself feel like beating him sometimes, I do not see the reasons for other people not to do so. Anyway, in another two weeks, cheng will turn 10mo.